Dating for more than a year with no serious relationship?


Hi Again!

The most common question asked at the speed dating event recently was when to use a coach and how to know if you need a coach. After all, many people think that dating is a numbers game and that God or time will send the right person to them.

In coaching, I always support spiritual surrender and still, there is real power in taking actions that move you towards your goal.

First and foremost know this...

There is nothing wrong with you. Coaching is not for people who have problems, it is for people who have goals.

Secondly, if you have been dating for more than a year and have not had a serious relationship that was over 6 months, and want one, then you may be eligible and ready for coaching.

If you just don't know what more you can possibly do, because you do everything right and are an awesome person, but still have not found "your person" then coaching is for you.

I say this because this is who my clients are before they find love.

Enjoy a FREE discovery session!

The only way I work with people is to have a discovery session to see where you're at and if you are ready to be coached. THE ONLY THINK I ASK: Is for you to be willing to get out of your comfort zone and be in conversations with me that may be surprising, fun or even annoying and show up anyway.

Discovery is actually completely free, I will not pressure you into anything and you will always be at choice because after all, you are the expert of your life; and I respect that. Coaching only works if you really want the thing you're in it for!

I look forward to talking to you.

Best,

Varsha

Varsha Mathur, JD, PCC, is a certified (ICF) life, dating and relationship coach with over six years of experience. She formerly practiced law and mediation. Varsha coaches singles and couples around the world to create confidence, attraction and partnership with a tailored approach and tools to use for their many decades together in effortless, lasting love. She has been featured on: WCNC NBC Charlotte | Fox46 Good Day Charlotte | Interracial Dating Central |

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